“During the pandemic I got really frustrated with my weight and I asked my doctor for help. He suggested I find a dietitian and since I've never talked to one I assumed the person will help me count calories, restrict my food, prepare weekly menus and things like that. My husband came across Sydney's website and suggested I contact her instead. I didn't know what HAES approach was, I never even heard of it, but I was willing to try.
I was a bit reluctant to sign up because the sessions were virtual and I was afraid we won't be able to form a connection. I was really nervous, but I was pleasantly surprised when I saw her friendly, smiling face. Sydney calmed me down and gently guided me through the process. Knowing me, I need to be gently handled, because if the subject hits too close to home, or if I start feeling exposed and vulnerable, there is a fine line between me running away and me moving forward. She navigated that perfectly. Not once did I feel judged, quite the contrary. Her warmth and acceptance made me look forward to our sessions and even though we touched hard topics, it never felt like that. It was like a chat between friends.
I admit, I was a bit confused in the beginning and it was hard for me to let go of ideas that have been fundamentally embedded in my brain and behavior. Sydney challenged a lot of things I was thought to believe were true and she shed light on a lot of issues, from healthcare providers, general fatphobia, diet culture. The more I talked to her, the more it made sense and the more I healed. One piece of advice - don't give up after 2 or 3 sessions because you get confused and start doubting everything - it means it's working! :)
Sydney gave me great tools to work with, a lot of great advice and taught me a bunch. I feel better equipped to face challenges, to take care of myself better and to do better. I never thought I could get rid of certain unhealthy patterns, but Sydney helped me to do just that. It's scary to embark on a journey like this, it really is, but having Sydney as a co-pilot and a navigator, it makes it easier. I definitely recommend her services and I am definitely one of her biggest fans. After meeting with her, you will be too. :)”
-Teya